If sex talk is a sexual habit you both enjoy to ignite excitement in bed, here’s what you should focus on:
1- Complementing partner’s sexual skills
Anyone would be delighted to hear their partner admire their skills in bed. For example, a man likes to hear from his woman that she admires his sexual performance: “That was wonderful,” “I loved it,” “your strength attracts me,” “I love it when you touch me there” or “You do that so well.“
A woman also likes to hear from her man that he admires her sexual performance: “You’re amazing,” “I like how you do it,” “I love the way you do it” or “I love the moves you make.”
2- Expressing Feelings of sexual attraction
Among the words that attract men and women in bed are those that express feelings of attraction. If a man tells his woman in bed, “You turn me on ” or “you’re so attractive,” she will feel desirable and enjoy sex more, and vice versa for the man if he hears his partner say she’s turned on by him.
3- Complimenting partner’s physical appearance
Positive comments on physical appearance also ignite attraction between men and women in bed. For instance, a man can tell his partner, “You’re beautiful,” “I adore your body,” “Your eyes enchant me,” or “Your lips drive me crazy.” And a woman can tell her partner, “Your body attracts me,” “Your muscles tempt me,” or “Your smile melts me.” Commenting on physical appearance in bed indeed has a significant impact during the sexual relationship.
4- Asking for more
Wanting more and asking for more is what everyone wants to hear in bed. You can go for the one-word classics: “harder”, “more”, “faster”, “deeper”. Or you can try expressions: “don’t stop”, “just like that”, “keep doing that”, “Yes that’s what I want”.”
5- Expressing Love
Romantic talk also has its effect on couples during intercourse. If you both lean towards romance, you can choose words that express love, such as: “I love you,” “I adore you,” “I’m crazy about you,” and many other words to express your love!
In addition to sex talk, there are other things that might help increase intimacy and attraction between spouses, such as:
1- Oil massages
Oil massages increase relaxation between men and women and ignite attraction between them.
2- Playing music
Music increases passion and excitement. According to some studies, playing music during sex might induce sexual arousal and pleasure. Have you ever tried having sex while listening to music?
3- Using sex toys
Many couples use sex toys to break the routine and add more fun and excitement to their sex life. They might be suitable for you two if you like to try new things in sex.
4- Trying sex costumes
For the couples that are looking for a new way to break the routine and enjoy sex, they can try sex costumes and they are available for men and women.
5- Decorating the room
Decorating the room is always a good idea, by placing scented candles, for example, and adjusting the lighting. The room ambience can set the couple in a romantic mood to enjoy sex.
You can experiment many things with your partner to enjoy sex together, including sex talk or any other thing that ignites attraction between you two. Always go for whatever gives you pleasure in bed, because your sexual relationship is your special time together, and only you two know what is suitable for you!
For more tips, discover our Sexuality 101 program to enjoy diverse sexual experiences with your partner.
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